Engineers.. No more good for marriage!!

Hello everybody.

3^rd September 1983 the day I born. Hopefully all were very happy. My father has taken me in his lap and a voice appeared I WILL MAKE THIS BOY A GREAT ENGINEER. That is the day my dreadful day started. Its not like that, being an engineer future is not safe etc. But very obvious yes something is lacking from the normal men’s. It is very much fact Engineers’ are no more good choice for any bridegrooms. Now mind must be grooming, why am I saying like this when we have so many good institute like IIT, IIIT!! No need to pressurize your small brain, give me some time I let you all agree to my point.

·         Let’s dig out from the beginning. We all (I mean to who wants be to an engineer) really work hard to get an entry to best colleges. Some of us get that also. Lesser the girls in the colleges better the college will be. From starting of the best days, all engineers are learnt to live away from most beautiful creator of GOD that is girls. So we never get a chance to learn what really these diva’s wants from us.
·         Many women gauge a man’s interest level by how long it takes him to respond when she contacts him. If his response time is poor, she might assume he’s just not that into her. But what exactly happen we never get so close to women’s, so even we have feelings we don’t get right way to express that…
·         Simply put, dancing with a woman makes her feel special. But unfortunately we just dance when we get drunk, else who knows steps of dancing. Ahh, no one I believe. Unfortunately, most engineers are reluctant to put their dancing shoes on, especially in a public metting.
·         Dressing is the way to take your woman out is an excellent way to impress her. But who have the time and mind for nice dressing. From starting, Engineers are never have taken dressing as seriously. Wearing unmatched clothes reveals as busiest person and so they feel glad.
·         As a rule, birthdays and anniversaries should always be remembered. Forgetting something of this magnitude will send the message that you don’t find her terribly important. After all, any partner probably memorized yours early on in the relationship, so if hers goes unnoticed, she’ll be utterly heartbroken. Now how this can be possible to remember the first time when u kiss her and when we have firstly taken her for date. It really tough job, and engineers always fail to do that.
·         Women love it when a man gets along with her friends, but she simply adores it when he gets along with her family. Even if you’re not particularly fond of her busybody mother and father, suggesting a visit can really make your woman’s day. But arranging holiday for this is really a big task and even getting some and that also spend with your in-laws is really not advisable way to spend a day. So again fails!!!
·         As much as we love sex, women also enjoy a nice, deep kiss that doesn’t have any strings attached. This serves two purposes: It lets her indulge in kissing for the sheer pleasure of it, and it also tells her you want her, and not just sex. Yes, you’re charming and sexy and she loves being naughty for you, but sometimes she needs a different type of connection. In between one call from office for an urgent work and you have to leave her incomplete really makes you as a bad husband. But with no option left , you have to leave.

But apart of all these cons, engineers are really a true lover. This in fact that they don’t know to express, they don’t have enough time to make love. But they have just a goal in their mind to let her partner to be as Queen and for that they can do any thing. They never have hesitation in doing extra timing work shift with leaving all the pleasure that can be achieve in bed. And this is all done for his loving partner.

Rest is on you all to decide, is really an engineers are bad choice for marriage??

60 year of Great Indian Poverty

Every day while going office I saw an old women begging for food. Very few person has time & extra money to offer her. Once I offered her an 1 rupee coin, i received an equal blessing that my mom use to give me.

It is by mere chance some of us are born into good families. Had there be a little miscounting by God, we would have been part of that society we call 'below poverty line'.

Our India is the nation of critics. Some criticize corruption while others condemn illiteracy an unemployment. But PROVERTY is also targeted.

It is by mere chance some of us are born into good families. Had there be a little miscounting by God, we would have been part of that society we call 'below poverty line'. As a child born into a vegetarian family, I was told that if I eat chicken, I would be born as a chicken in my next birth and chicken will be born as a human and eat me! I now wonder if I will be born to an impoverished family in my next birth, because of my apathy towards the poor. Don’t know ..??

I remember seeing some poor people working for Delhi shining project DELHI METRO under sun in a remote place in Delhi. These workers come from all parts of India. I met a family from Orissa who migrate every summer to Delhi to work in a various labor work. They have a fair amount of land back home, but the land is a sad mother that cannot give anything to her children because she is struck by drought.

The workers wake up before the sun rises, dig earth for giant pillar . When the sun reaches high in the sky and the heat gets unbearable, they take rest in a shelter, make broken rice and eat while waiting for the sun to calm down. At about 5 p.m, they restart their work - and often continue well past midnight if it is a moonlit night. They get a mere Rs 60 - 100 for making and laying a thousand bricks, and the family works as a unit.

Once, I met a rickshaw puller who had covered his body with a shawl. When I asked him why he had chosen this garment in such hot weather, he told me he had only one dress, which he treasured and wore only on Saturdays, when they go to the market. The next time when your child rough handles his clothes, I request you please tell him this story and teach him to respect his possessions.

Poverty does not indicate a lack of wealth. A poor person struggles all his life from morning to night, and continues doing so until he dies. His goals are simple: shelter and the next meal for him and his family, and he spends his entire life trying to fulfill this goal. Any wonder people call poverty a curse?

Yet, many of us take poverty for granted. We turn the other way when we see a beggar, because we are immune to their demands. This does not mean that begging should be encouraged, as beggars often resort to extreme measures for gaining sympathy - like pinching babies to make them cry and waving distorted body parts (which may or may not be really maimed) in our faces. Giving alms is not a solution, and should be discouraged at every step. However, each of us definitely should try and do our bit for the poor, in whatever way we can, and we should teach our children to do the same. After all, we are what we are because of our parents, teachers and the countless poor who performed innumerable tasks for us, enabling us to focus on the larger picture.