valentine day

Love Letter 

Across the globe, valentine day witness exchange of flowers, gifts and cards.. All we do in name of St Valentine. February is the official beginning of spring and the fertility Love.  Love is feeling of contentment, happiness etc.. We all have different way to take what Love is.. !!!. Taking a biological approach to love reveals that human beings experience a mammalian drive, which is a strong urge to mate that is comparable to eating or drinking. We could also break down this drive into three parts: lust, attraction and attachment. Lust is what brings people out of the house and into dating society. Attraction encourages focusing one's attention on an individual mate for procreation. Attachment then forms and involves varying degrees of toleration. Scientists believe this toleration is instinctual. But all cannot be think from scientific view.

Whatever love is according to experts, scholars and scientist will only be of trivial concern to you. Ultimately, you must decide who you love and why. In the end, you don't owe anyone an explanation except your own heart. This is what you might call love in the real world - your world.

It's hard to tell yourself that you're not really in love when emotions run so high. Infatuation and true love can indeed be very difficult to differentiate. The same feelings that are involved in infatuation are also present in loving relationships. The difference is that relationships based only on infatuation have no other dynamic besides sensual pleasure.

Therefore, one of the first questions you should ask yourself is whether or not your love is unconditional. Would you love your partner if he or she started to change? Would you love your partner if their physical appearance diminished over time? Would you still love your partner if he or she were very sick? What if your partner were unfaithful to you?

I am remembering few lines from movie Spiderman that’s very much giving a feeling about LOVE:

:- “ when you look in her eyes and she's looking back in yours... everything... feels... not quite normal. Because you feel stronger and weaker at the same time. You feel excited and at the same time, terrified. The truth is... you don't know what you feel except you know what kind of man you want to be. It's as if you've reached the unreachable and you weren't ready for it." .

When you are truly in love with somebody, the petty things in life don't matter. Relationships based on love can survive sickness, financial difficulty and a host of other real world problems. Though infatuation may be what starts a relationship in some cases, real love transcends sexual attraction. Sexual urges come and go, but love is always in the air.

Love is based on personality compatibility, not just physical or mental attraction. If you really love someone you enjoy their company, their conversation and their outlook on life. You have much in common and when you do have personality differences, you are willing to sacrifice your own comfort to make your partner happy.

But for those who are not in love and not yet found their partners or have any breakdown in their love lines, its not like all ends here . Life never ends. A very famous poet written a very sweet poem on this ..

When others don't respect you,
When you're not amongst the admirable few,
When for a question, you can't find a solution,
When all you're sure about, is confusion,
Tell yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE!!

A very Happy Valentine’s Day to whom who is really in Love and also to those who are waiting to be Loved (of course like me)...  I wish for all to get their Love.