26th March was the day we have decided to be one. Suddenly there was big change in life. Till that time I was alone king of living hood. Now I have someone to share all the good & bad time. Really with an amazing feeling of happiness, there was feeling of responsibility . Responsibility to take immense care of her life, carrier, feelings and number of things.
Don’t know from when I have line in mind that though marriage is a complimentary affair, that is the wife complimenting the husband in the home, nevertheless; the role of a husband in the house is invaluable. The husband according to the foundational intent of God was created to be the head of the home.
Headship is responsibility that every responsible husband must assume, Throughout the Gita, God treats marriage partnership seriously. The husband should be willing to respond to his commitment of managing his family in such a way that both God and society would be proud of. His goal in marriage should be more than been the head; it should be a father.
But the things are not easy in today’s time as it was earlier. I remember the time when at night when my father came from office even in the late hours he took visit to all the rooms and use to check all of us. When we got ill, father sat for all the night at chair even knowing that his sitting won’t do anything to fever. Its medicine has to do all, still he sits.
Now the world has change dynamically. Working timings has changed. We have to work in rotational shift. And incase if the lady partner is the working professional than the things became slightly complex.
Before any man get on bed to sleep, we wants to see and check for all the family members. Now what if his most important life partner is out from the home for working shift. Whatever happen, it is impossible to sleep. It’s not that man is against working culture of women’s but still there is a sense of worriedness in the mind.
Every evening, when man get back from home he is always willing to see his family in happy state but it became the most saddest moment when same time wife is getting ready to go work. It’s not easy for any man to express his feelings. Still that was the most unhappiest moment that he has to tackle daily.
A responsible husband is also a leader, leadership demonstrated by love. The husband that demonstrates to his family the capacity of setting values that encourages oneness in his family will have for a harvest a home of peace and joy. But sometime asking for changing the working time from the partner, there is worriedness in the mind it can be taken in against tone. We men never want anything from partner, but just a happy and safe family. It should be not be taken in wrong sense.
Providing for the needs of the house is a responsibility that marks a husband that is up to the task of taking care of his family. Providing essential needs like food, shelter, education, clothing and other vital needs of the family is the responsibility of the husband, though a wife that has the wherewithal can assist or compliment the husband's efforts. Getting assist from the partner is most happiest thing, but when at the cost of taking wife out for all night is somehow hard to accept.
Not really getting how to proceed further, but would like to stop with just a request to the most beautiful wife that you are placed at the most important place in men’s heart. Please don’t make us a HELPLESS HUSBAND.
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