We all have seen what happen at Guwahati.
And I’m nowhere in position to defend what boys did there. It was absolute
animalism. I too have seen the video that is available at NDTV official website
and it force me to think the same incident with another view.
Few days back there was a rape came into
news from Noida in which 4 school boys were accused to rape their classmate.
When Police did the investigation it was found, all the 5 where drunk.
I don’t know how many of you have watched
the video of Guwahati incident till end when a person asked the details from
the girl. She too was from 11th standard.
The both incident have 2 things common, it
was an event happen after getting drunk and a girl molested. What kind of
society we are building where schools lads where allowed for having alcohol.
I remember my school times, that time we don’t even think of getting wine. If
have in a mood of doing something nasty at max we use to watch some Hollywood movies
where you can see a couples of kiss scene. In our personal hostel room, silently
we use to talk about girls and that’s also very rare. But now having boyfriend
& girl friend is taken as status symbol. No matter how many good friends
you have, but you should have maximum facebook friend’s list. And those who
have max girl’s in their list can be termed as COLL DUDE.
A father of my friend use to have PAN PARAG
but till date he won’t get a power have to it in front of his Father. I won’t
term power as GUTS, it’s better can be termed as respect. Do we have same
respect now. I don’t think so, having beer with son or viceversa can be taken
as open minded father or parents.
Let’s talk about girls also. India is free
country and you are allowed to wear whatever you wish to, their can’t be any
sort of argument in this. Now, how wonder if a girl wearing sort pants and
sleep at my village home’s roof. Will mosquito let her sleep properly ?? I can’t
think so. Society can be taken as same, where even you are not responsible for mosquitoes
but it would you first who will suffer and have to do something for your own
protection. You need to understand, peoples
living around you are still not as open minded as you become. They are not practice
to digest when they see a girl in sort dresses.
We were Indian earlier, started coping European.
Now we are neither Indian nor European.
And this is what is root cause of the incident what is happening all
over the country. Boys who did these things can’t be only responsible for this
incident.. there are many more.
I agree with almost all the points mentioned in this article, yes there is still a mind gap in india...the girl who suffered was drunk and they may be called as open minded people in our society, because we have created our own defination of open minded people. not only in india, but you will find these kind of hungry dogs everywhere, i seriously urge to all women (any age), it is only you who have to protect urself against these dogs.
ReplyDeleteTry to wear decent clothes whenevr u go for parties, do not expose ur asset more than required.because you wont find police to be active everytime.
i am 100% sure, everyone in india curse our police administration then why to have faith on them at 1am or 2am outside BAR/DISC/PUB, when a drunk women herself doesnot know what is happening to her.
There are lot many points to share. i request all men, please control ur hunger and do not let our country down. this news rotated in all over world and we indians are known for diverse and best culture. your every activity reflects your culture.
Indian society prides itself, albeit hypocritically, in its family values. The Great Indian Family encompasses, within its orbit, something called 'extended family' that consists of relatives as distant as cousins thrice-removed and aunts married to fathers' younger brothers' brothers-in-law.
ReplyDeleteWith such abundance of family members, such choking levels of diabetic love and affection between them, all being so interested in and (more importantly) curious about each other's welfare, it becomes inevitable for everyone to interfere with everyone. This trait often leads to the killing of all individuality, forcing people to a conformity of the worst kind.We have lost a sense of individual agency in our thoughts and actions. Like children of overachieving parents, we seem overwhelmed by the legacy of great ideas in our society. It’s almost like we need to exfoliate these oppressive layers of crusted wisdom that have settled upon our consciousness, and discover our own morality for ourselves. To see the relationship between values, thoughts and actions, and agitate over the inconsistencies that we see in ourselves. To acknowledge that words like “honesty” and “caring” and “respect” are most powerful when displayed in action, not recited by rote.
Getting rid of these layers takes an enormous amount of introspection, a ruthless sense of honesty, and the courage to act upon the schisms when we encounter them. These will be painful.